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Are we really that SPECIAL or we need to wake up NOW???

2020-03-30 20:40
Nowadays, it is not so easy to be special. We see many motivational speakers out there sending similar messages to the masses:
“You are unique and wonderful”
“Dream big, take a massive action and you get it no matter what”
“You are special and at the right moment you will contribute to the society in a way that you will be immortalized in the history forever”
“Just stay positive and you will see prosperity manifesting in your life!!!”
“Meditate!!”
Reality.
Well, in 2015 we had 7.347 billion people in the world, with approximately a billion added every 5 years. And needless to say that there are not so many successful people exist. Don’t get me wrong; there are a lot of people, who live a pretty good life, are healthy and happy. Their families are strong and job pays the bills. And positive thinking does bring positive results in people’s lives, meditation makes you calmer and working on your dream is also crucial.
However, many people believe in those messages so much that they leave their jobs, partners, families to pursue illusive dreams and sink in self-destruction if they allow themselves to feel bad.
Encouragement.
Do you want to be a famous actor? A model? A billionaire? Stick to the plan! You might really succeed. But don’t make irrational decisions in leaving a secure job that pays for your life or throw away your kids as you decide to concur the world.. Some things we are truly responsible for. Plus, many of us forget about the importance of education in almost any area we want to master. It takes time to become really good at something and to get the proper skills, experience and knowledge, it is also time consuming. There are way too many homeless people, who believe so much in becoming famous and in their unique destiny to succeed. And to be really different, you must have something more than just a dream and strong belief in yourself, for example, education or a solid plan to proceed..
Contributing.
It’s important to remember that contributing to the society/community usually brings meaning to our lives. That’s why people are so eager to help others in any way possible. But, in reality, it doesn’t matter how many people you have helped; just 2 or 2 million. Our life already has a meaning if we change one person’s life. Sometimes, we need to let go of the idea to save the world and focus on those things or people around us. Not all of the people who take massive action- succeed, and not all of the people who are extremely successful -follow those principles promoted by the motivational leaders.
The end.
Work on your plan, dream big, take care of your health, and also stay realistic and humble about everything that is going on. You are already special and wonderful and that all you need to be loved.
And, I love you!