If something doesn’t go your way, you are free to walk away

We are often facing such situations in life, where we just can’t get through… Either romantic relationship is not going as we wish, or the job we so desperately want and put a lot of effort to get, is just outside of our reach, and so on. It can be unpleasant or even more so – devastating… We stress about it a lot and refuse to give up.. We keep pushing, and pushing, and pushing.
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Even though, we must always do our best, overdoing may be even worse than not doing enough. There is a flow in life just like there is in the river. There is a natural process of healing, and aging, and learning. One thing will lead to another.
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In the moments of severe stress, anxiety and worry, we must ask ourselves, is there really something now that I can change by forcing it? Or can it wait? Or is it better to let go of that grip?
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Most of the time, it CAN wait and by applying the force for a while it didn’t already work, then why continue? We are trying to get control over everything so that we can predict our future in the way we want, and receive exactly what we expect. But that’s not how it works. And in that exact moment, when we decide to let go of that grip or to completely walk away, the universe may surprise us with an unexpectedly pleasant outcome. And we will finally find the true freedom and happiness.
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We choose most of the things in life we complain about… But we can make it different this time. May be we should go dancing for a while? 
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And, I love you!